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Survivor Spotlight: Naomi’s Story

Naomi had entered her marriage with two children, one who has autism. The family has recently just made the move to RI from another state. She felt lucky to have found a man who would be with her and help care for her children. One month into the marriage her husband requested that she use the son’s money to pay the bills. When questioning him he became verbally and emotionally abusive. As the start of school quickly approaching, the children needed clothes as well as school materials, but this did not matter to her husband.

Naomi’s husband later lost his job and came with Naomi to DHS to request benefits for the family. While at DHS, her husband demanded that Naomi stay quiet and pretend she did not know how to speak English. He also reported to DHS that Naomi had special needs and could not communicate well, so all information should go through him. Since her husband was collecting unemployment Naomi was referred to 30 hour work program to comply with RIWorks putting more stress on her.

After having the benefits approved, Naomi’s husband let her come to DHS on her own. At her very first meeting with the ECA she reported the emotional and verbal abuse. She was referred to Family Violence Option Advocacy Program, but Naomi did not need any waivers nor was she ready to leave. Together with DHS, Naomi scheduled a time to meet several times for two weeks.

During those two weeks, the abuse became physical and Naomi’s husband also began hitting the kids. Once Naomi saw her kids getting hurt she said enough was enough. She decided to make a plan to leave. She was able to contact a family member and secretly fled with her two children to safety. Naomi said that it was the most intense experience of her life, but is grateful to her DHS contact for giving her the support she needed to break free. Naomi is looking forward to a brighter future with her children.


Eyes on the prize: 2018 health equity summit draws 750

The front page of the Sept. 21 edition of The Providence Journal, which covered one event happening the day before on the fifth floor of the Providence Convention Center, but not the 2018 Health Equity Summit, which drew more people.PROVIDENCE – What does a news silo look like? The hardened boundary resulting in some events being reported while others are ignored? The visual image of an editorial wall built around those preferred narratives that are covered and promoted?

More often than not, the actual boundaries of a news silo can be hard to discern, similar to difficulties in recognizing the lasting stigma carried by survivors from unreported sexual assaults.

Not last week.

Despite the best efforts of the Republican majority in the Senate to tamp down the revelations about the alleged attempted rape committed by Supreme Court nominee Brett Kavanaugh against a university professor and research psychologist from California when they were both teenagers, the story has overflowed the riverbanks – and the swirling waters have kept rising.

Too many women know the relative truth from their own personal experiences with being sexual assaulted to be swayed by patronizing white male Republican Senators, such as Orrin Hatch, that somehow Christine Blasey Ford was “confused” or “mixed up.”

News silos in action
Closer to home, all one had to do was glimpse the front page of The Providence Journal on Friday, Sept. 21, to witness a news silo in action.

The big front-page, above-the-fold news feature story and photo, with the all caps headline, “RISING UP,” reported on the women’s leadership conference, Realizing Inspiration and Sustaining Excellence, on the fifth floor of the Providence Convention Center, which drew a crowd of about 500 participants, according to the Journal story.

The impressive event was certainly newsworthy of being covered, of being placed on the front page, of sending a photographer to capture images of what happened at a conference, which focused on community building and empowerment of women in the workplace and entrepreneurship, from a workplace perspective.

But, what was missing? What was being ignored? What was not being reported on? The glaring fact was that right next door, a short football toss away on the fifth floor of the Providence Convention Center, the third annual Health Equity Summit was taking place, drawing an even larger crowd of more than 750 participants.

The 2018 Health Equity Summit, “Building Healthy and Resilient Communities,” celebrated the belief that everyone in Rhode Island should have access to live the healthiest life in the healthiest community, according to Dr. Nicole Alexander-Scott, the director of the R.I. Department of Health, in her opening remarks.

Alexander-Scott and the keynote speaker, Dr. Edward P. Ehlinger, framed the context of the work around health equity by the numbers: life expectancy is dropping in the U.S., the rate of infant mortality and maternal is increasing, and the reality that only 10 percent of health outcomes are determined by what happens in a doctor’s or nurse’s office, despite trillions upon trillions of dollars spent on medical care.

The solution: to shift investment into places where health begins – in our homes, schools, jobs and communities.

Ehlinger, who called himself a public health metaphysician, spoke about the underlying malaise – the lack of a sense of belonging and the lack of social cohesion and the need for connectedness.

The summit highlighted the work of nine operating health equity zones in Rhode Island, which places the state as the national leader in promoting community-based solutions to health, social and economic disparities. [For those news outlets that like to cover lists about where the state ranks nationally, Rhode Island is number-one in the U.S. in health equity zones.]

In the unlikely case that any of the moderators [Ted Nesi, Tim White] of the first debate between the 2018 gubernatorial candidates on Thursday, Sept. 27, were to ask a question about health equity zones, where they are located geographically, and what they seek to achieve, here are the answers [none of which can be found in The Providence Journal].

The nine HEZs in Rhode Island include: a citywide Providence HEZ, a citywide Pawtucket and Central Falls HEZ; a citywide Newport HEZ, an Olneyville Neighborhood HEZ in Providence; an Southside, Elmwood and West End Neighborhood HEZ in Providence; a countywide Washington County HEZ; a citywide West Warwick HEZ; a citywide Woonsocket HEZ; and a townwide Bristol HEZ.

Each HEZ has its own focus, based upon a community needs assessment, to achieve health equity by eliminating health disparities by using place-based, where-you-live strategies to promote healthy communities.

The inclusive summit featured more than 50 concurrent workshops and breakout sessions, with the goal of building a shared language around community health, tackling complex, difficult topics, including: Improving neighborhood health through the built environment; supporting families with substance-exposed newborns; healthy aging and why it matters; outcomes-based funding for health equity interventions; development without displacement; and addressing disparities in cancer care among Latinos in Rhode Island.

Before launching into an in-depth coverage of the 2018 Health Equity Summit, here are some “impertinent” questions, in the best tradition of Studs Terkel, for Providence Journal Executive Editor Alan Rosenberg to answer:

What prevented The Providence Journal reporter and photographer from crossing the artificial boundary between the two events? [It did not stop some of the participants, who were speakers at both conferences.] Was it a lack of curiosity? Was it the constraint of the assignment? Given the recent layoffs, were there not enough reporters on hand to cover both stories? Not enough freelancers? Was it because the RISE conference had numerous large corporate sponsors, such as Shop & Stop, Care New England, Lifespan, and Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Rhode Island, Amica, Bank Rhode Island, Bank Newport, Bank America, and Cox, among others? Was it an existential choice, choosing corporations over communities, the business of health care over healthy communities?

Was it an endorsement of the status quo, as Robert Frost once posed in his poem, “Mending Wall,” about his neighbor, whom he described as moving “in darkness, as it seems to me, not of woods only and the shade of trees,” an enduring belief in the idea that “good fences make good neighbors?”

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There was so much content and conversation occurring all at the same time, and so much valuable information being shared at the 2018 Health Equity Summit, it was difficult to figure out how best to the tell the story.

Here are some snapshots:

At the breakout session, “How Housing Works To Support Health,” which highlighted the importance of housing stability in bolstering healthy outcomes, Karen Santilli, the president of Crossroads RI, Tanja Kubas-Meyer, the executive director of the R.I. Coalition for Children and Families, Jody Shue, executive director of Age Friendly RI, and Dr. Michael Fine, the senior population health and clinical services officer at Blackstone Valley Community Health Care, discussed the lack of affordable housing options as a health disparity issue.

Shue pointed out the demographic problem – that Rhode Island was the number-one state in the nation with the highest number of “old old” residents, people who were 85 years and older, and that 14-20 percent have mental health issues. In turn, Shue described a pilot program at Charlesgate providing clinical services for residents. Phase Two of the program is scheduled to begin shortly, which will include a full-time behavioral health specialist.

Santilli spoke about the yearning, even among the homeless population that Crossroads serves, for a sense of community, wanting to live in the places where they have social networks.

Fine talked about what he called the battle rhythm of housing first, primary care second, to help lives become more coherent.

When moderator Brenda Clement, the director of Housing Works RI, posed the question about investments and resources needed to change the current dynamic, Fine replied: On one level, it was about redirecting the unnecessary amounts of money being spent on health care. The larger issue, Fine continued, was that the coordination between housing and health was “nobody’s job,” identifying the problem that too much of the work was being done in silos. “It’s nobody’s job,” Fine repeated.

• The collisions of people and ideas, that concept often articulated as a valuable part of the innovation ecosystem, kept occurring at the summit. ConvergenceRI first bumped into Dr. Patricia Flanagan, professor and vice-chair of the Pediatrics at the Warren Alpert Medical School, chief of Clinical Affairs at Hasbro Children’s Hospital, and co-chair of PCHM-Kids, a statewide, multi-payer initiative that includes 20 practices and serves nearly half the children in Rhode Island. The point of convergence: the importance of story telling in the delivery of health care.

• The next moment of serendipity came minutes later, when Colleen Daley Ndoye, the executive director of Project Weber/RENEW, called out to ConvergenceRI to say hello. Her community agency, a peer-based harm reduction and recovery services program for at-risk people in Rhode Island, had just been awarded a $2.5 million, five-year federal grant from SAMHSA [the Substance Abuse, Mental Health Services Administration], in partnership with The Miriam Hospital and the R.I. Public Health Institute, to focus on substance abuse treatment for high-risk HIV negative Rhode Islanders, focusing on Black and Latino men who have sex with men.

When had the grant been announced? ConvergenceRI asked. “It’s being announced today,” Daley Ndoye said; it is embargoed until 1 p.m., she added, looking at her watch. “Then you can write about it.”

Project Weber/RENEW has been one of the recovery community groups engaging with folks with fentanyl test strips, and ConvergenceRI asked her the importance of the new harm reduction tool in her agency’s work.

“Fentanyl test strips are such a unique and useful resource,” Daley Ndoye explained. “They can be the moment that someone decides to take charge of their own life. They can decide, at that moment, to say: I want to live; I want to see what is in these drugs; I want to educate myself.

Maybe they are not ready to stop using drugs, Daley Ndoye continued. “But maybe that moment of education, that moment of awareness, is a sign that that they are willing to start making small changes. Once you’re willing to start make small changes, that can snowball, so you can start making bigger changes in your life.”

The importance of access to fentanyl test strips, Daley Ndoye concluded, was the way in which the harm reduction tool could change the equation. “Somebody who decides to test their drugs for fentanyl might not be will to stop using, but they might use less, they might use slower, they are at lower risk for an overdose, and then they might consider, in six months time, getting into recovery, and that’s a big victory for us.”

Daley Ndoye also weighed in on the experience of trauma from sexual assault and sexual violence. “The way we talk with our clients, and the way our clients talk with us, they describe trauma as this,” she said. It leaves an imprint on your psyche, on your person, on who you are, and everything that you do moving forward is affected by that initial trauma, where it is in childhood, as a teenager, or as an adult.”

Every day in her work, she continued, “In dealing with people who are victims of trauma, and who are survivors of trauma, and with our staff, who are all trauma survivors, I think the lesson is this: things are not always logical, things don’t always make sense, it’s not always one plus one equals two.”

Things will come out years later, she said, as a person goes through the healing process. “We talk to people for years, and then, years later, they say, ‘This happened to me.’”

Keeping the health in health equity
A strong evidenced-based argument was put forward by the team at Clinica Esperanza/Hope Clinic that in order to achieve health equity, the needs of everyone in the community, even those left behind by the current system, must be met.

In a breakout session entitled “The ‘Health’ in Health Equity: How a clinic for immigrants significantly improves health outcomes through access to care and health education,” the team from the community health clinic serving Olneyville in Providence provided the evidence and outcomes to back up their position.

Clinica Esperanza Hope Clinic serves more than 2,000 patients a year, mainly Central and South American immigrants, 60 percent of whom speak Spanish as their primary language and 75 percent of whom report household incomes of less than $15,000 a year.

The focus of much of the culturally appropriate care delivered is on nutrition education, cholesterol/blood pressure/glucose checks, primary care and vaccinations. Through what is known as the “Bridging The Gap” program, which includes quarterly visits with primary care provider and participation in a health education program, patients’ use of emergency departments was reduced significantly compared with Medicaid patients.

One of the goals of the program is to manage chronic diseases before they become emergent or incurable, improving the quality of life and lessening the burden on local hospitals and ERs to provide charity care.

After the session, ConvergenceRI spoke with Dr. Annie De Groot, the founder and volunteer medical director at Clínica Esperanza, who spoke forcefully about the need to include health access as part of the process of achieving health equity.

“I still think we have a real problem with under-insurance and un-insurance in our communities,” she said. “If people don’t know they have diabetes, they are not going to get on a bike, or walk on a trail that everyone is building, or go to yoga classes. They just won’t know that it is very important to them.”

De Groot believes that access to primary health care can really make a difference in peoples’ lives. “Let’s not turn our backs on that.”

One of the strengths of the 2018 Health Equity Summit was that some of the underlying tensions around how scarce resources were being invested could be talked about.

De Groot, for instance, candidly told ConvergenceRI that relationship between Clinica Esperanza and ONE Neighborhood Builders is “fraught with tension” right now because of the spending of money on activities that are not related to connecting people to actual health care.

“People think that the problem [of access to health care] was fixed with Obamacare,” De Groot said. “Just like, with HIV, because now you can get treatment for HIV, we don’t have an HIV problem. Well, hello, yes we do. And, we still have a health care problem, especially for people living in Olneyville.”

Many people who are renting in Olneyville, De Groot continued, “They do not have access to health care.”

Clearly, it is a conversation, a discussion and dialogue that needs to be continued; but the differences are out in the open, and the 2018 Health Equity Summit provided an opportunity for everyone to be heard.

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Letter To The Editor: Will you help us light up the night?

October is domestic violence awareness month and as a board member of the Women’s Resource Center I wanted to ask the community to come together and join us for a night of light to honor all the victims of domestic violence.  It is sometimes hard to believe that domestic violence happens in our beautiful seaside town and that the services the center provides are so needed.  The Women’s Resource Center is a safe haven for women and families who are coping with domestic violence in all its forms.   It can be easy to say that domestic violence does not exist in our community if you don’t witness it yourself. But the statistics bear out that it does and it is getting worse.

Domestic violence does not always start with physical violence and bruising. Derogatory language aimed at making a person feel small and without value is often how it begins. Around the world at least one in every three women has been beaten, coerced into sex or otherwise abused during her lifetime. In the US alone everyday more than three women are murdered by their husbands or boyfriends. Most think of domestic violence as a woman walking around with black eyes, broken bones or obvious bruises and they fail to see the woman who is yelled at every day and called horrible names, the woman who is threatened by violence and in fear that her children will be taken away, or the woman who has nowhere to go so she stays.

I want to change what victims and survivors see when they look at our Newport County Community.  I want them to see light and therefore I ask you to please join me on October 29, 2018 at 6:00 PM on the steps of the Women’s Resource Center (114 Touro St, Newport, RI) as we light 1 candle and pass that light to all that join us and together we walk to the Newport Courthouse in silence with our light.  I ask that you walk for the 1 out of 3 women who have been abused in her lifetime, I ask that you walk for the children and silent witnesses to a women’s suffering, I ask that you walk for the survivors of domestic violence who were able to get away and most importantly I ask you to walk for the women who feel afraid to come into the light.  Please join me and the board of the Women’s Resource Center to create such a bright light that all feel safe to come out of the darkness and know this community supports them.  Will you help us light up the night?

For more information on Women’s Resource Center please go to https://wrc.wndrwrk.com/.

Eilish FitzGerald Clarkson

Board Member Women’s Resource Center

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Letter To The Editor: Domestic Violence & Gun Control

Letter To The Editor: Domestic Violence & Gun Control

By Lori N. DiPersio, executive director, Women’s Resource Center serving Newport and Bristol counties

Last month, Governor Raimondo signed legislation to keep guns away from domestic abusers. As Rep. Teresa Tanzi stated, “At last, victims of domestic abuse in Rhode Island will not have the constant fear of knowing that the person who abused them still has a gun.”

As if the abuse itself is not enough to cause constant, paralyzing fear, adding guns to the mix is like adding fuel onto a fire. Abused women are five times more likely to be killed by their abuser if the abuser owns a firearm. It’s a simple fact that guns in the hands of any person with a history of violence can only lead to tragedy.

Case in point is the recent Texas church massacre. The gunman was convicted and jailed for assaulting his wife repeatedly and beating his infant stepson until he suffered a fractured skull. He spent time in a mental institution, was booted from the military for bad conduct, stalked and harassed ex-girlfriends and was sentenced for animal cruelty for beating a puppy. His long resume of violence dates back to middle school.

Despite all of these warning signs and a well-documented dark past for such a young person, he was able to amass a gun collection that he used to kill dozens of innocent souls – including those of a pregnant woman, her unborn child and numerous children. If you knew what you now know about this shooter, would you have in good conscience had any part in selling him a gun? If he could beat up a puppy and an infant with his bare hands, what would he have done with a gun in his possession?

Unfortunately, we – and the 26 dead, the numerous injured, their families and our grieving nation – know the answer.

It’s time we stop putting guns into the hands of those who cannot handle themselves. Support gun legislation to stop the violence and protect innocent lives, before it happens again.

Lori N. DiPersio, executive director, Women’s Resource Center

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Survivor Spotlight: Patience’s Story

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Patience left her abusive partner after enduring years of emotional, physical and verbal abuse. The final straw came for Patience when her wife pushed her down the stairs, bruising her tailbone and breaking her ankle, in front of their son. Patience became acquainted with the Women’s Resource Center when a friend suggested she get help. The first meeting was held in a private office at the adult day care center where she works part-time as a CNA. Through the course of her work with WRC, Patience reclaimed her power as she filed for divorce from her spouse, secured new housing, and is in the process of filing for sole custody of their son.

The Law Enforcement and Court Advocates at WRC helped Patience navigate the process of securing a restraining order and filing for divorce from her abusive partner. Patience told her WRC advocate that she was looking forward to living her life without fearing her abuser will show up in public places, as there was a time where she was unable to even grocery shop or work due to this fear. Her child is also now in school and her job allows her to remain close to her son’s school. Mother and son also travel together on public transportation on a daily basis. Patience’s hard work and courage to seek help from the Women’s Resource Center literally saved her and her son’s life.

Survivor Spotlight: Gwen’s Story

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The Women’s Resource Center received a referral from the Department of Human Services about a woman needing help. She had fled her abuser with a 3 month old child and a 5 year old child and was currently homeless, couch surfing with friends. She had no cash or SNAP, no bus passes or any paperwork identification for her children because her abuser had destroyed all of it. In order for her to have a DNA test required by Ocean State Social Services, they needed this paperwork to move forward with the custody process, which cost our client time and money. Our Women’s Resource Center advocate contacted OCSS, was able to get our client a new appointment for DNA testing, but most importantly, the worker waived the identification requirement.

Through more advocate referrals from WRC, the client secured a bus pass to get to Providence for the DNA test. However, she was still homeless, with no legal documents and nowhere to go. Our advocate and client met for an appointment to discuss her issues, needs, goals and challenges. The very next day, our advocate was able to find her and her two small children shelter. She is now stable and on her way to overcoming the challenges of surviving domestic abuse, thanks to the Women’s Resource Center.

Survivor Spotlight: Matt’s Story

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Although we do not often think of men as victims, statistics show men can be and actually are victims of domestic violence. This is the story of a man who went above and beyond to obtain sole custody of his daughter who became the primary victim of his abuser, the mother, when he left the relationship that was not only abusive but a toxic one, as he described it. Matt stated that it was his love for his daughter that gave him the strength and determination to stay sober for a year and overcome his physical health condition and mental health challenges to prove to the authorities he was not only worthy but capable to take proper care of his child.

He was assisted to obtain a work waiver while attending his court dates that allowed him to find affordable, stable and safe housing, and a child support waiver to prevent any retaliation from the mother that would disturb the stability and peace that he was trying to surround his daughter with.

At the time of reassessment with the Women’s Resource Center, Matt reported he was enrolled at the Community College of Rhode Island for a second associate’s degree and his plan is to help people like himself who are willing and determined to get their lives, their dignity and their families back, and be part of a healthy and productive community again.

Survivor Spotlight: Clara’s Story

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The Women’s Resource Center assisted Clara, a young woman who was seeking a divorce from her abuser. After being connected to RI Legal Aid through the Women’s Resource Center, she was able to obtain support in getting her divorce. For many years, Clara feared facing her abuser, whom she had been with since she was 11 years old, and was so nervous about seeing him in court, she often got sick beforehand.

With the help of the Women’s Resource Center’s Court Advocacy Program, Clara felt empowered enough to move forward with leaving her abuser in the dust once and for all. At the divorce proceedings, child support was established, along with reasonable visitation rights for Clara’s children. After the proceedings, she came in to the reassessment meeting with her Women’s Resource Center advocate feeling accomplished and relieved to have this part of her life settled.

Clara is proud to be working part-time as an office assistant at a doctors office, the first time she has worked in her life due to her abuser’s control over her. During the assessment, she requested a Good Cause Removal of the child support waiver and her case is now closed successfully, thanks to the guidance of the Women’s Resource Center’s advocates.

 

Survivor Spotlight: Ming’s Story

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Ming has a tenacious heart in the face of adversity. When she came to the Women’s Resource Center, she was seeking help. After fleeing her physically and verbally abusive husband, Ming and her six children drove through the night after an altercation where her violent husband pulled a knife on her, and they ended up in Rhode Island. After arriving at the Women’s Resource Center, Ming was granted with a work waiver – she later requested it be lifted after two months to begin a CNA class.

All alone without support, Ming had no family or friends around to help her. But, because of her effervescent personality, Ming soon made friends with the neighbors, who were enchanted by her children, and offered to take care of them after school while Ming went to classes. She also used the help of neighbors’ transportation to do grocery shopping, make appointments and even go to church.

Once Ming finished CNA classes, she faced a new challenge: passing the state test, which she did successfully at first attempt. At the time of her last meeting with a Women’s Resource Center advocate, Ming reported that she is working, and her children are doing well, growing healthy, and excited to go back to school.

Survivor Spotlight: Sun’s Story

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Sun, a survivor of domestic violence, has had a child support waiver for three or four years. While she was with her abuser, although he shot her and beat her, she received felony charges for her abuser’s actions. During a meeting with a Women’s Resource Center advocate, Sun described the growth, empowerment and self-esteem boost she experienced as a person after surviving the nightmare she lived through.

She explained that she is safer being away from her abuser and that the child support waiver has kept the peace, and the Women’s Resource Center gave her the tools she needed to get free. Sun’s not yet where she wishes to be in life but has a management position at her place of employment and is looking into ways of returning to school to complete her degree.