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Take Action! Advocate for Domestic Violence supports @ your workplace

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and each week we will be sharing one way you can take action to support those experiencing abuse in our community.

This week, we encourage you to advocate for domestic violence supports at your workplace. This email includes facts, suggested action steps, and links to resources to share with your human resources department or other decision-makers in your organization. 

COVID-19 continues to be a traumatic event for us all. Some workers face the impossible task of caretaking, or homeschooling, while trying to manage a 40-plus hour work week. At the same time, some workers are experiencing increased threats of violence in their homes. During this crisis, employers can play a key role in supporting survivors of domestic violence in their workforce. 

IMPACTS ON EMPLOYEES

One in four women experience domestic violence in their lifetime, and nearly 75% of survivors of domestic violence cite economic insecurity as the main reason they stayed with their abuser. We spend most of our waking hours at work, and yet most workplaces are not prepared to support employees who are experiencing domestic violence, sexual violence, and/or stalking.

Consider these facts:

  • 60% of survivors in one study reported losing their jobs as a result of domestic violence
  • 96% of survivors indicated that their job performance suffered as a result of the abuse
  • More than 50% of stalking victims report being stalked at work

IMPACTS ON WORKPLACES

In 2003, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention estimated that domestic violence cost $8.3 billion dollars a year in direct health care costs and lost productivity. These issues hurt a business’ bottom line, and it’s in an employer’s best interest to proactively address them.

Consider these facts:

  • 24% of workplace violence is a related to interpersonal relationships, situations where an individual gains access to a workplace and commit a crime against an employee or customer who is a current or former intimate partner. 
  • 35% of Vermont domestic violence perpetrators surveyed had contacted their partners in an abusive manner during the workday and used work resources to do so, including work phones, work vehicles, work computers, internet, or email.

To learn more about how domestic violence impacts workplaces, check out this fact sheet.

TAKE ACTION: HOW YOU CAN HELP

Workplaces Respond to Domestic and Sexual Violence is a National Resource Center committed to creating workplaces free from domestic violence, sexual harassment and violence, and stalking. No matter what your role is at your workplace, you will find resources at Workplaces Respond to help you advocate for a work environment that is supportive to domestic violence victims and survivors.

Consider taking one of these action steps:

  1. Advocate for a domestic violence policy at your workplace. Share this model policy with your human resources department or other decision-makers in your organization.
  2. Encourage supervisors to watch this training video or review this guide. Supervisors can play a critical role in both preventing and appropriately responding to the impacts of domestic on the workplace. 
  3. Learn to recognize the signs of domestic violence in the workplace. If you suspect that an employee or co-worker is experiencing domestic violence, there are things you can do to help.
  4. Know the local resources available. The Women’s Resource Center provides services in Newport and Bristol Counties. Together, the members of the Rhode Island Coalition Against Domestic Violence serve the entire state of Rhode Island. 

Whether you are an employersurvivor or co-worker, or concerned specifically about supporting colleagues during the COVID-19 pandemic, there are resources available to help you create a more supportive work environment for victims of domestic violence.

HOW WILL YOU TAKE ACTION THIS WEEK?

COVID-19 Crisis: No Person Left Behind

Message from the Interim Executive Director

March 17, 2020

Dear Friends:

The COVID-19 coronavirus pandemic has hit home locally, and the Women’s Resource Center has responded by transitioning to remote services, effective yesterday.

This means that staff in our Newport and Warren offices are working remotely from home in an effort to stem the spread of the virus to other staff members, their families, clients and the broader community.

Health concerns are our top priority, as is ensuring those affected by domestic violence can continue to get the help they need.

Rest assured, we remain available to support anyone experiencing domestic violence in our communities throughout Bristol and Newport Counties.

It’s a critical time because we want no person left behind when it comes to dealing with intimate partner violence.

  • Staff is communicating at this time via phone, text and video to continue to deliver core services and meet client needs.
  • We are holding phone and video conference meetings with managers, case workers, support staff, team members, and board members to keep the lines of communication open and manage our operations.
  • Anyone visiting our office locations in Newport or Warren will be directed via signage to call our Domestic Violence Crisis Support and Shelter Hotline phone numbers.
  • Our website and social media platforms have the support and hotline phone numbers prominently displayed and communicated, and direct anyone in danger to call 9-1-1.
  • We are working with law enforcement and social services in our area to ensure that our referral phone numbers and other ways to contact our key staff are known.
  • We are monitoring the well-being of families living in our shelters to ensure their counseling and support needs are being met.

As this is a stressful time for all, it can also be a time for increased situational intimate partner violence to occur. Now more than ever, people and families seeking our help will need someone to talk to, a safe haven to turn for assistance and sheltering, and the very best in counseling services that we can provide.

Some of our sources of funding and support have been disrupted, ie. our annual fundraiser has had to get postponed. Please consider helping us continue our important and critical mission and meet the demand for our services. Even a small amount can help us to provide:

  • Counseling
  • Advocacy
  • Law Enforcement Liaison Work
  • Shelter Program
  • Hotline Call Staffing
  • And More

Your donation – in whatever amount – is much appreciated by us and those we serve.

Thank you for your continued support of WRCNBC.

In solidarity,

Jessica Walsh
Interim Executive Director

Critical update: Transitioning to Remote Services

To our clients and community,

We have been closely monitoring the evolving COVID-19 situation. We are deeply concerned about the health and safety of our clients and broader community.

In an effort to slow the spread of the virus, and to ensure that our staff are healthy and able to provide supports to those experiencing domestic violence in our community throughout this public health crisis, we have made the very difficult decision to transition to remote services starting Monday, March 16.

We are still here to support anyone experiencing domestic violence in our community!

We will use phone, text, email, and video to continue to meet client needs. Please reach out using the phone numbers or email below, and we will work with you to establish the form of remote communication and support that works best for you.

Here are our phone numbers:
Domestic Violence Crisis Support: 401-846-5263
Shelter Hotline: 1-866-236-2474

If you are unable to talk on the phone, email us at: info@wrcnbc.org and someone will be in touch.

Always remember, if you are in danger, call 911.
We will keep you updated as this situation evolves.

Please stay safe and well,
The Team at the WRC

Survivor Spotlight: Georgia’s Story

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It was a long journey for Georgia to be able to feel confident in herself to get a divorce from her abuser. She was connected to RI legal aid and she was able to obtain support in getting her divorce. For many years Georgia feared facing her abuser and was nervous about seeing him in court. With the help of court advocates, she was empowered to move forward and start a new chapter in her life.

At the divorce proceedings, child support was established along with reasonable visitation rights for the child. Georgia left the courtroom feeling accomplished and relieved to have this part of her life settled and over. She is now working part time as an office assistant at a doctors office. Georgia has also recently requested for her Good Cause Removal of her child support waiver and feels ready to be the independent mother she has always wanted to be.

Survivor Spotlight: Joanna’s Story

Johanna had been in an abusive relationship for several years with her longtime boyfriend until family gave her the push she needed to get out. She fled from her abuser and found refuge here in RI with relatives. Johanna had only been in the state for two weeks when she was referred to FVOAP by DHS for a work waiver. During this waiver time, Johanna managed to enter a shelter, and soon transitioned into the transitional housing program with SOJ. She’s been attending support groups and working to enroll her children and herself in school.

Johanna has also conducted her own job search and has been successfully hired into a position she hopes will help her get her dream job. She hopes once she gets her degree she can move into a career in computer technology. Johanna has stayed truly optimistic throughout the whole process and sees great things ahead for her and her daughter.

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Survivor Spotlight: Jane’s Story



It’s always amazing to hear stories about women who dare to dream big and create their own happy ending. Jane first reached out for help and reported she was living with her parents, who despite their cultural beliefs, were supporting her on her decision of divorcing her abusive husband, after disclosing to them what she endured while still with him. Jane suffered from long term emotional abuse as well as several physical incidents. However, with the support of her family and DHS services, Jane went back to school while still working and children safety in their grandparents arms.

Jane will soon graduate with honors and next step planned was going after a master degree. The divorce was final and the child support was settled. New employment opportunities also came her way and she is now making enough money to support her family on her own;  DHS is beginning to close her case. The most exciting news Jane had to share, was that she just got pre-approved to buy a house, something she wasn’t sure she would be able to do for a long time. She got emotional telling all the good news, Jane eyes got teary as she explained that last year feels too much like a dream. “Remember me at the beginning?” she said “I can’t believe it.” “You were right when told me I have to believe in myself and I will find the strength within me to do what is good for my family and do it right”. Jane is eager to get in contact with other women to tell her story and encourage them to fight for themselves, their families and their dreams.




Survivor Spotlight: Ruth’s Story

Ruth had been in a relationship for about two years, everything was perfect until she became pregnant. Her boyfriend’s demeanor changed over night. He became protective and vigilant over her every move. Once their son was born, Ruth decided she wanted to enroll in CNA training and work part time.  Although her boyfriend did not stop her from doing so, he began accusing her of wanting to leave the home and her son so she could meet other men and leave him.

Ruth’s boyfriend followed her, harassed her while she was at school and interrogated her when she got home.  One night after a heated argument her boyfriend attempted to smother her with a pillow. Ruth was able to fight her way out of his grip. That night her boyfriend stated that he would kill her if she left him, this was the first of several times this threat was made.

One day before Ruth went to work, her boyfriend requested that she stay home. When she did not comply with the request he followed her outside to her car. Ruth tried driving away but her boyfriend followed her hitting her vehicle several times. Despite this, Ruth did not give in and immediately drove to the police station. She ran in and reported the situation the best she could as she is not fluent in English.

Ruth’s boyfriend was so angry that he entered the police station and demanded she go home with him. When she refused to go with him he became so aggressive that the police interfered. Ruth was in shock to see his behavior even in the presence of police, she knew she could not go back with him. That day, she was able to express her feelings of fear and reported for the first time, everything she had been living through. Ruth’s boyfriend was arrested and she was referred to Domestic Violence services and DHS.

Although Ruth was shaken up by all the events of that day, she was still in high spirits. She knew that she had to be brave not only for herself but also for her son. That day she requested an address block and a child support waiver. Ruth began looking for a place of her own and requested our emergency funds to help complete the first months rent and deposit for her new apartment. She just found a place to move into and has not had to miss a day of work, all within one month. Ruth says that she’s looking forward to her future.


Survivor Spotlight: Lauren’s Story

Lauren had been in an abusive relationship with her boyfriend for several years before she moved out and took her child with her. She had been physically abused and even took the blame for felony charges her boyfriend has committed. Since moving out of the home, she says that despite the nightmare she was living she has never felt more empowered. Lauren now has a safe place to live and says that the child support waiver she has been getting is keeping the peace. She now has a management job and is returning to school to finish her degree. Lauren has high hopes for herself and her child.

Survivor Spotlight: Derrik’s Story

Derrik was married to a woman and has two young boys. He worked as a commercial fisherman so was away at sea for days. When he would return, his wife would always be drunk, drugged up, and the children neglected. When he tried to speak with her,she became violent and verbally aggressive in front of the children. Derrik felt trapped because he was the one working to make ends meet and had no other relatives to support him. His last trip he made as a fisherman was truly his last trip.

Derrik returned and the two boys were at school but the house was a disaster. There was no food in the house and it was a disgusting mess. Derrik searched for his wife but could not find her. He called the school to make sure his boys were safe, thankfully they were. Suddenly, he saw his wife walking down the street towards their home staggering drunk and seemingly drugged with a man that was holding her . He ran out to see if she was ok. When he approached them, she told him to go away and that she was with this man now.  

At that time, Derrik picked up the children from school, brought them to a hotel with some bags and proceeded to take some control of the situation. He had to quit his job because he was the sole caregiver and that job would not allow him to be there as often has he needed to be. Derrik went to DHS for help on what to do in order to ensure the best thing for his children.

DHS assisted him with AAF, Emergency funds and advocacy. Three months later, Derrik now has a new career that allows him to spend much more time with his sons as well as a new apartment for them to live in.


Survivor Spotlight: Jessica’s Story

Jessica had been facing longtime verbal, emotional, financial, and sexual abuse from her boyfriend. Her boyfriend would make threats not only to her but to her family members that if they ever told anyone about their relationship, they would pay the price. Jessica became connected with the WRC first when she was pregnant with twins. She wanted to wait until the babies were born before she left her abuser. After the children were born, Jessica was still working and still living with her boyfriend. However, due to family support and help from advocates at the center, Jessica took her children away from that toxic environment and the absent parent.

Through all of it, Jessica always maintained a positive attitude that things were going to get better. Although it was challenging, she has made it possible for her family to live in a safe environment. Jessica is finishing her last semester of school and taking care of her now walking 6 month old twins.